Humble Man, Bold Girl.

The Humility of Naaman and the Boldness of a Little Girl When I was a young boy, about eight years old, I was on vacation with my Dad and brother in Nevada. One day we went to an amusement park. I was so excited. I put on my favorite shorts, they were black jean shorts … Continue reading Humble Man, Bold Girl. →

A Eulogy for My Brother

The Scriptures remind us there is a time and season for everything under the sun. A time to laugh and a time to cry, a time for joy and a time for pain, a time to be born, and a time to die. If there’s one thing we can all know for certain, it’s that … Continue reading A Eulogy for My Brother →

Thomas Westerman Obituary

Thomas G. Westerman passed away on Friday, September 16, 2022, unexpectedly in Nevada County, California. He was born in Denville, New Jersey, growing up in Cedar Lake’s loving community. Thomas graduated from the Morris County Vocational School of Technology in 2009. He was a loving young man who cared deeply for those around him. Generous, … Continue reading Thomas Westerman Obituary →

Mirrors

We're all mirrors. A mirror reflects whatever is right in front of it. Look around at all your hobbies and interests, the people and things you've surrounded yourself with. That's you. Those things make up who you are. "Be yourself" sounds a lot different when we realize that who we are, our identities, is made … Continue reading Mirrors →

The Great Knight

Many years ago, there was a land ruled by a wise and good King. The King had taught the people in his kingdom to respect what was good and to help one another in word and deed. The words integrity, honor, loyalty, and compassion were alive in this place. It was a land of harmony … Continue reading The Great Knight →

Run of the Arrow

Two young Indian boys were preparing for their final and most challenging test of manhood by running up a long hill. It was a steep climb, but not nearly as difficult as the Mountain of Two Suns would be. The boys were Running Deer and White Fox, and on the day following the next full … Continue reading Run of the Arrow →

The Story of the Torch

Long before there were telephones, airplanes, or overnight delivery, there was an efficient system for relaying messages through the Highlands of ancient Scotland. Each village had a torch runner, a brave and nobleman who was able at any time of night or day to carry a message swiftly to the next town. It was the … Continue reading The Story of the Torch →

What does it take to really change?

"He became as good a friend, as good a master, and as good a man, as the good old city knew, or any other good old city, town, or borough, in the good old world." Ebenezer Scrooge in Charles Dickens' A Christmas Carol is famous for his transformation of character. His humbug personality undergoes a … Continue reading What does it take to really change? →

Growing Up In Your Twenties

I just celebrated my 29th birthday. And it's true what they say about time passing faster as you age. Years blend into years as though one long stretch of time. But hitting specific milestones has caused me to look back and reflect. This birthday was the first that felt different in a while. How I … Continue reading Growing Up In Your Twenties →

A Meditation on Marriage

Recently, I had the honor of offering a message during a very good friend's wedding. Having only just celebrated my two year anniversary with my wife, I can hardly make a claim for expertise in the topic. The task quickly became humbling as—more than ever—I trusted God to give me words that would have significant … Continue reading A Meditation on Marriage →